Bad Habits

 Definition:

A bad habit is a recurrent, often unconscious pattern of behavior that is acquired through frequent repetition, or an established disposition of the mind or character. Also, bad habits may result from a customary manner or practice, which can become an addiction, especially to a mood altering drug.

Brief Explanation:

A bad habit is anything we do repeatedly that move us away from relationship with God or others. Habits are formed early in life, and most are benign, helpful, necessary for healthy living. Life would be most difficult if we had to actually think through how to eat or dress on a daily basis. What is presented here are negative or harmful habits, or perhaps irritating ones that we would like to change.

Well, to change requires three primary steps. First, we must admit we need to make a change, and actually stop the habit. This is the easiest part of change, also the most difficult aspect to sustain. Secondly, and more importantly for long term change, we need to submit to a change of thinking. Our beliefs about the habit we have must be seen in light of truth, and we must no longer see our habit as a friend but something we really want out of our lives. Third, new behaviors designed to replace the old ones (usually necessary) we need then to practice, practice, practice.

Negative habits can be changed, if we want them to. It takes work, but God will help us. However, all techniques one might try will have greater impact with scripture and accountability.

For more on change, see Journey to Wholeness by Dr. Stan DeKoven

The Word of God:

Psalm 119:11

“Thy word I have treasured in my heart, That I may not sin against Thee.”  James 4:7

“Submit therefore to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from You.”  Matthew 7:7

“Ask and it shall be given to you, seek and you will find, knock and it will be opened to you.” John 14:15

“If you love me, you will keep my commandments.” 1 Corinthians 15:33; 34

“Do not be deceived; Bad company corrupts good morals.” Become sober-minded as you ought, and stop sinning; for some have no knowledge of God.”  Ephesians 4:22-24

“ …in reference to your former manner of life, you lay aside the old self, which is being corrupted in accordance with the lusts of deceit, and that you be renewed in the spirit of your mind, and put on the new self, which in the likeness of God has been created in righteousness and holiness of the truth.”